What Actions One should use once under the threat of attack?
When person feels under attack or somebody is threatening it's good to have a try of speaking calmly to get the reason for their behavior. And use positive body language. Sometimes this may help at other time not.
It depends on the character of the person. Some people become aggressive as well and stand to defend themselves or the other person. They may try to defend themselves using hands, legs or some things they may find on their way -pens, chairs, tables. In the moment of attack and thus in need to defend themselves usually automatic defensive gestures come out. People tend to cover vital organs without thinking of that.
Others would use submissive body language like avoid looking at the offender and try to make their body look smaller by putting head down and crouching into lower position. They may also stand still without movement, so as not to pay attention on themselves. In order to find a way out they might also look from side to side and ask for help.
Such situations are really unpleasant especially if you don't feel anything behind you to bring such a situation.
It is really difficult to suggest something as every situation is different. It depends on how big and strong a person who attacks is, what and if they have a weapon, if they are under influence of some drugs or alcohol , are they alone or with a group of supporters and so on and if the defender knows at least some simple defensive gestures etc.
I'd like you all to involve as I want to hear your opinion. What actions person should use once under the threat? Bring your ideas and experiences, please.
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I try to avoid getting into such a situation, if I do then it is because the person is more of a random threat and I would try to disengage unless he was threatening my family or friends.
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My experience tells me that in a true fight or flight situation your subconscious takes over and what will be will be... Calculating action in that scenario is quite difficult.
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Darryl Pace
I try to avoid that situation.
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One is the "threat" someone might feel in every day life. Like the co-worker who threatens your job.
The other is an actual physical threat..."Hey lady...give me your purse"
Two entirely different things.
And the person who has never really experienced the second situation...can only guess how they would handle...so avoidance is the best possible choice.
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I tend to agree with John. There are two types of conflict here.
A funny one, well at least now, is that my husband and I thought our villa was being robbed one night on our honeymoon. Well the flight or fight response kicked in and we both decided to fight. I grabbed two knives and handed him one...too bad it was only a strong wind on top of a mountain in Italy!
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